Saturday, July 30, 2016

A Woman's Guide to makin' it happen

Such a great show. I watch it all the time with my roomate B.
I talked to one of my friends this week who often dates guys in her professional circles, because, who doesn't? But of course, how do you move from "casual business acquaintance" to "date"? The rule is always "It's not a date unless he kisses you." Guys are not subtle.

Anyways, my "tip", since I've been accused of not having enough "tips" in this blog, is that the pros, the girls who are GOOD at flirting with awkward men more used to computers than people, use the high five like a fat chef uses butter.

And please don't tell me you should hug him. A hug is both too close and too far on the physical scale for those of us who are not naturally social (which, let's face it, is the set of guys you are dating). He's going to be nervous he's going to get an erection if he's attracted to you, and just confused about the complexity of whatever social norms require hugs in the first place. It's not PLAYFUL.

If you can get over your inhibitions about reading Pick-Up-Artist Terminology feel free to read this: From a guy's perspective.

Anyways, I wanted to give you another point that is counter-intuitive if you've read anything online about flirting ever. And that is this - every article ever says never to send naked pictures to a guy. But all the pro-level girls I know do Facetime cam shows and have their own stored "Best-of" movies for the guys in their life. It's hugely effective, and you don't have to be a model to pull it off. Even if you don't want to show yourself, SHARING porn you liked is a massively effective way to flirt with a guy, even if you haven't really gotten physical with him yet. Tumblr is the best way to get porn to send him - but if you're more of a RedTube girl, send him your favorites. I've had three girls use this technique on me and it's 100% successful so far...




Monday, July 18, 2016

This is super interesting.

https://aeon.co/essays/micro-targeted-digital-porn-is-changing-human-sexuality

They claim "anal was a relatively rare fetish" a couple decades ago. I'm not sure that's factually true...but maybe it is?

I went to Melbourne FL, obviously.